11 anti relational things men want women to understand

Contrary to popular belief it is not the case that everyone wants to be in an intimate relationship. Perhaps it's because of the timing of their life or their general attitude towards relationships. Everyone has their own views on being part of a couple, but you can't force someone into your idea of a happily ever after. Here are different views about the motives why people think this way with a focus on the key elements that those who don't want to be in a relationship should understand.

1. Commitment doesn't equal control

Certain people are scared of being controlled by another. In a healthy relationship, commitment must mean that both parties have their own freedom. Men and women both need to be able to exercise their autonomy regardless of whether they are when they are in the course of a relationship. The only distinction is that someone is currently a part of your life, and that is something you have to consider.